Wednesday, November 24, 2010
研究:越愛白日夢越不快樂
nothing ~ just came back from sunnycoast wasn't sunny at all! LIEEEEEEEE~
Anyways... read this article its pretty true.
中央社台北14日電)科學家發現,人們醒著的時間,近半都在做白日夢,思忖未來、回想往事。
然而,英國「每日電訊報」(Daily Telegraph)網路版報導,科學家認為,白日夢不但無助於保持快樂,還讓人更加痛苦。
哈佛大學心理學家吉伯特(Daniel Gilbert)和柯林沃斯(Matthew Killingsworth)發現,人「活在當下」時最快樂。
他們表示,人們46.9%時間都在胡思亂想,而這段時間最不快樂。
就算想的是愉快的事,還是不及專注於手邊工作時愉快。
科學家發現,人們最享受、最滿足的時刻,就是專注在一件事情上,包括魚水之歡、運動,或與朋友深入對話。
聽音樂和玩耍也有助心思集中。
另一方面,休息、工作或使用家用電腦時,心思最容易「放空」。
這項發現或許能解釋為什麼有人瘋極限運動、瘋社團,或到酒吧與人閒聊。
柯林沃斯說:「人類有種獨特能力,能專注於並非當下的事情─包括記取過去教訓、預測並計劃未來,甚至想像完全不可能發生的事。」
「然而,胡思亂想並不能讓我們快樂,反而有害。」(譯者:中央社蔡佳敏)991114
http://tw.news.yahoo.com/article/url/d/a/101114/5/2gzjl.html
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Tuesday, October 5, 2010
Jaeson Ma - Love (feat. Bruno Mars)
LYRICS:
If this song touched your heart and soul, please spread the LOVE to all your friends, family and people you know. ONE LOVE!
Lyrics:
Verse 1
Now Hollywood wants to make you think they know what love is. But I'm a tell you what true love is. Love is not what you see in the movies. Its not the ecstasy, its not what you see in that scene, you know what I mean? I'm telling you right now, true love is sacrifice. Love is thinking about others before you think about yourself, love is selfless not selfish. Love is God and God is love. Love is when you lay down your life for another, whether for your brother, your mother, your father or your sister, its even laying down your life for your enemies, that's unthinkable, but think about that. Love is true. Think.
Chorus:
I'll put you in front of me
So everybody can see
My love, this is my love
I know that I'll be alright
As long as you are my guide
My love, this is my love
Verse 2
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, it always perseveres.
Love never fails. Love is everlasting, its eternal, it goes on and on, it goes beyond time, love is the only thing that will last when you die, but ask the question why? Do you have love?
Chorus
Verse 3
There is no greater love than this than he who lays down his life for his friends. Now are you willing to lay down your life for your friends? You're probably willing to lay down your life for your mother, your father, or your best friends, but are you willing to lay down your life for even those that hate you? I'm going to tell you who did that, the definition of love is Jesus Christ. He is love. The nails in his hands, the thorns in his brow, hanging on a cross for your sin my sins, that is LOVE he died for you and me while we still hated him, that is love. God is true love, and if you don't know this love, now is the time to know, perfect love.
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Human & Animals are connected?
I am back from sydney~~~~ it was okay.... spent heaps on food :( yeh and I came across this article today~~ pretty cool:
On the first day, God created the dog and said:'Sit all day by the door of your house and bark at anyone who comes in or walks past. For this, I will give you a life span of twenty years.'The dog said: 'That's a long time to be barking. How about only ten years and I'll give you back the other ten?'So God agreed.
On the second day, God created the monkey and said:'Entertain people, do tricks, and make them laugh. For this, I'll give you a twenty-year life span.'The monkey said: 'Monkey tricks for twenty years? That's a pretty long time to perform. How about I give you back ten like the Dog did?'And God agreed.
On the third day, God created the cow and said:'You must go into the field with the farmer all day long and suffer under the sun, have calves and give milk to support the farmer's family. For this, I will give you a life span of sixty years.'The cow said: 'That's kind of a tough life you want me to live for sixty years.. How about twenty and I'll give back the other forty?'And God agreed again.On the fourth day, God created humans and said:'Eat, sleep, play, marry and enjoy your life. For this, I'll give you twenty years.'But the human said: 'Only twenty years? Could you possibly give me my twenty, the forty the cow gave back, the ten the monkey gave back, and the ten the dog gave back; that makes eighty, okay?
''Okay,' said God, 'You asked for it.'So that is why for our first twenty years we eat, sleep, play and enjoy ourselves. For the next forty years we slave in the sun to support our family.. For the next ten years we do monkey tricks to entertain the grandchildren.. And for the last ten years we sit on the front porch and bark at everyone. Life has now been explained to you.
Monday, September 20, 2010
Sandra is back hohohohoho :)
so we went to REIJI... cause we are BAD BAD KIDS *yeh judgmental people should just kill themselves*
It was fun cool awesome good~ LOL great great night.... music was abit ... gay ... but everything else = goody goody~
and then... sandra's legs hurt so she had to sit sit sit ~ while I *WALK* no not dance.... with Amanda.... :)andddddddddddddd nothing else... great night sandra is crazy and amanda is just yeh usual...
Thursday, September 16, 2010
Well I've hit a massive as wall recently, how how how am I going to climb over this wall and go forward... sigh
Uni life is pretty hard:(
I came across this today... pretty helpful~ and you wonder why so many people want to study at Harvard University... and why so many smart people FAIL to get into this amazingly WOW WOW uni...
以上的圖是哈佛零晨4:00的圖書館
差距…… 在網上看到這篇文章,覺得很有感觸,或許這再一次印證任何人每一次的成功背後都有不為人知的付出和汗水。 哈佛老師經常給學生這樣的告誡:如果你想在進入社會後,在任何時候任何場合下都能得心應手並且得到應有的評價,那麼你在哈佛的學習期間,就沒有曬太陽的時間。
作為聞名於世的學府,哈佛大學培養了許多名人,他們中有33位諾貝爾獎獲得者、7位美國總統以及各行各業的職業精英。究竟是什麼使哈佛成為精英的搖籃?哈佛學子接受了什麼樣的精神和理念?這些問題吸引著成千上萬的人去探知其中的答案。
哈佛圖書館牆上的20條訓言似乎已經給出了答案。短短數語,引發深思,給人啟迪。
哈佛圖書館的二十條訓言:
1.此刻打盹,你將做夢;而此刻學習,你將圓夢。
2.我荒廢的今日,正是昨日殞身之人祈求的明日。
3.覺得為時已晚的時候,恰恰是最早的時候。
4.勿將今日之事拖到明日。
5.學習時的苦痛是暫時的,未學到的痛苦是終生的。
6.學習這件事,不是缺乏時間,而是缺乏努力。
7.幸福或許不排名次,但成功必須。
8.學習並不是人生的全部。但既然連人生的一部分―學習也無法征服,還能做什麼 呢?
9.請享受無法回避的痛苦。
10.只有比別人更早、更勤奮地努力,才能嘗到成功的滋味。
11.誰也不能隨隨便便成功,它來自徹底的自我管理和毅力。
12.時間在流逝。
13.現在流的口水,將成為明天的眼淚。
14.狗一樣地學,紳士一樣地玩。
15.今天不走,明天要跑。
16.投資未來的人,是忠於現實的人。
17.受教育程度代表收入。
18.一天過完,不會再來。
19.即使現在,對手也不停地翻動書頁。
20.沒有艱辛,便無所獲。
http://www.facebook.com/?ref=logo#!/photo.php?pid=82436&id=100000935776049&fbid=115964071778118&ref=nf
Pretty good~ thumbs up up up~ I hope I have those principles tattooed in my brain and every time when I am about to start procrastinate e.g. NOW ahahha I will be able to stop myself ...sigh.. not possible yet lol:( so sleepy sleeeeeeeeeeeeep sleeeeeeep NO... study now and I will make my dream come true ... what dream... iunno lol
till then... Hope they help.. lol ~
Love ~
Sunday, September 12, 2010
I deactivated my FB haaaaaa cause like I am bored and insane...
I will be on Jason's if anyone wanna look for me or tag photos or anything just tag him okays....
Well, nothing much recently... went to donate blood... FINALLY yeh~
It didn't hurt much but because my blood pressure was low, they took only a little bit :( they took HEAPS of jason's ... OH MY GAH like WOW... oh and we didnt know that you are meant to drink more than 1 L of water before donating blood kekeke yeh lady was like OMG you only drank 1 cup... yeh~
when they took out the needle.. it was like SEIOFSIFJSEFke.... eww ouch.... disgusting feeling!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
:(
Oh and GET WEEL SOON Sister! <3 <3 <3
Love you~
Till then Lovers....
Sunday, September 5, 2010
EWWW SAD
Live Monkey Brains
Most people probably have heard the tale of the barbaric foreigners who strap a live monkey down and eat its brains while it screams. It has even made it into the Hollywood mainstream in movies like "Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom." The common aspects of this story, as it is almost always told, make it an excellent illustration of a classic urban legend.
Recipe
Legends have traditionally been passed down orally and it is no different with the Live Monkey Brain legend. The following is the universal recipe for this legend:
Take one (1) living monkey. The story does not work without the kicking and the screaming and the biting. Just eating monkey brain stew is not particularly interesting or shocking.
Strap beneath special table with hole in center. The monkey must be strapped beneath a table with its head poking up through a hole.
Bop monkey on the head, scoop and serve. The diners usually deliver the fatal blow themselves with hammers, the skull is sawed off and the brains are scooped out with spoons.
That's about as complex as the legend gets, but I'd like to add two special ingredients that you may not have noticed in your culinary excursions:
Others do it in other places. This is universal in every version I have ever heard or seen. Americans say the Taiwanese do it. Indonesians say the Taiwanese do it. Taiwanese say that Hong Kongers do it. Hong Kongers say it is rural Chinese on the border with Vietnam. Historical versions by officials from Beijing (in the North) report that it is Southerners who do it. Variations might get as close as another ethnic group in the same area or even that Grandfather did it once in the old days, but you rarely hear a reliable first hand account, which brings us to...
A friend of a friend told me. The story is often claimed true because a friend had a friend who was in Asia during the Vietnam war who ate monkey brains or saw tables with holes while traveling. Occasionally, someone does tell this as a first hand story, but (with two anecdotal exceptions) everyone I have ever challenged has backed down or has been unable to provide convincing details. Extraordinary claims require extraordinary proof.
http://maxent.org/ch/monkey_brains.html
Friday, August 20, 2010
有錢屌大?
風水輪流轉~ 明天會發生什麼事我們都不知道~ 做好自己就好了~
加油! 加油! 加油~
哦~~ 還有就是謝謝很多朋友的支持+祈禱! 你們讓我覺得說其實這世界還是有救的哈哈哈!! 愛死你們啦~
還有就是~~ 我們這裡已經湊到~~~ AUD400多了 WOO YEH謝謝 雖然不是很多但是真的很謝謝有幫忙的! 謝謝~
哦還有我想說的是~ 最近我說到說我想去簽那個死後捐器官的同意書 然後有些智障就說什麼幹嗎捐! 阿死後還要器官來幹嗎=。= 我甘願他們拿我的器官去救活一個人我才不要我的器官被蟲蟲吃掉呢! 浪費! 所以這更加說明了我們這個年代不懂什麼叫做分享!!!!!!!!!!!
好寫完了 氣消了~ 我要去看夜市人生了 ! 下個禮拜捐血去! 一定會去! 一直拖拖拖吼!
SEE YOU
Lovers :)
Thursday, August 19, 2010
HELP p.s.澳洲要捐的跟我講:)
Please please please help~ She is my cousin's daughter Joy, who is diagnosed with leukemia (2nd time)! She is only 2 years old! They need at least RM127,000.00 (AUD 45,000.00) for her treatments. She deserves the right to be like everyone of us, growing up healthy and happy! It is a big big big amount to spend for a new family. Please help, every dollar counts! Comment/facebook msg/Email me (eelynl@gmail.com) if you want to help! Even if you do not have the ability to donate money for this little girl, please do pray for her!
May God bless this little girl :)
Thank you!
小鑫潔急性血癌‧急籌12萬移植干細胞
2010-08-16 09:31
2歲半的蔡鑫潔,原本是一名性格溫順,愛笑的寶寶,但是一場病卻讓她的性格突變,現在的她漸漸收起笑臉,時而皺眉、發出痛苦的伸吟。或許她的身體實在太虛弱,化療的痛楚無法表達出來,所以她總是苦著臉,讓親人見了也心酸、難過。
這名很有個性的小公主是去年7月被診斷患有急性淋巴細胞白血病,俗稱急性血癌。自此媽媽就帶著她就從東馬砂拉越老家來到首都,開始漫長的化療過程。
本來以為化療過程在今年9月就能完成,鑫潔可以出院回家,但是事與願違,她6月中旬被診斷癌細胞復發,這個噩耗讓爸爸哭了一天,媽媽難過失望。母帶女從砂赴隆治療次階段療程發現癌細胞復發.媽媽佐瑟芬(28歲)表示,她是在鑫潔被診斷患病後,陪著她從砂州老越來到首都一家政府醫院接受化療治療。整個療程分3階段進行,預計在9月完成整個療程,惟在今年6月的第二個階段時,醫生發現鑫潔癌細胞復發。一波未停,一波又起,這個壞消息讓滿懷期待的夫妻猶如晴天霹靂。據醫生透露,化療治療對鑫潔的病情效用不大,她必須接受臍帶血干細胞移植手術,才能降低復發的可能性。
"醫生指鑫潔目前病情暫時受控,並需趁這時候儘速進行手術,否則擔心鑫潔的病情會有變化。"
鑫潔目前在一家政府醫院接受化療,父親蔡勝輝(38歲)和佐瑟芬早前通過星洲日報基金會,籌募12萬7000令吉的手術醫療費。
父駕德士母家庭主婦龐大醫療費令雙親苦惱
蔡勝輝是一名德士司機,佐瑟芬則是一名家庭主婦,龐大的醫療費用讓夫妻倆束手無策。
"鑫潔爸爸一直很掛念著孩子,但是為了省錢不敢常來西馬探望孩子。他每天都工作超過12小時,要賺錢給孩子醫病。"
她表示,很多親戚朋友在鑫潔化療時期紛紛伸出援手,惟目前尚需要大筆手術費,他們也無能為力。
獲知愛女癌復發父難過哭了整天.
鑫潔是佐瑟芬唯一的孩子,本來很受疼惜。現在看著她飽受病魔折磨,夫妻倆更是把她當成小公主般寵愛,要甚麼就給甚麼。
佐瑟芬也表示,剛知道孩子的癌症復發時,丈夫真的很難過並無法接受,哭了一整天。
"我們母女來到這裡求醫初期,他每次打電話來都會難過流淚,經過親友的開解,他現在心情已慢慢平復。"
小鑫潔愛玩手機遊戲
小鑫潔是手機迷,自己會玩手機遊戲,還會接聽電話,可愛動作常常逗樂媽媽。
佐瑟芬表示,小鑫潔沒有很多玩具,平時只是喜歡玩手機遊戲,也喜歡看手機內其他堂兄弟妹的照片。
"鑫潔爸爸每天都會打幾通電話給我,有時候我走開,她還會自己接聽和爸爸講話。"
小小年紀就得和病魔抗戰,讓小鑫潔收起笑臉,常嘟嘴、皺眉發出呻吟聲,似乎在宣泄體內的痛楚。(圖:星洲日報)
佐瑟芬是砂州土著侖巴望族,她為鑫潔取的英文名字是Joy,就是希望孩子的一生能夠充滿歡樂。(圖:星洲日報)
藥物點滴讓鑫潔不舒服,因此經常鬧脾氣不進食,總是要媽媽細聲安撫才進食。(圖:星洲日報)
可愛的小鑫潔未病發時性情溫柔,動作女性化,而且經常帶歡樂給周圍的人。(圖:星洲日報)
Sunday, August 15, 2010
And they say fat is ugly
Saturday, August 14, 2010
Yo~
AAADD - KNOW THE SYMPTOMS.....
Thank goodness there's a name for this disorder. Somehow I feel better, even though I have it!!
Recently, I was diagnosed with A.A.A.D.D. - Age-Activated Attention Deficit Disorder. This is how it manifests itself:
I decide to water my garden.
As I turn on the hose in the driveway, I look over at my car and decide it needs washing.
As I head towards the garage, I notice mail on the porch table that I picked up from the postman earlier. I decide to go through the mail before I wash the car.
I lay my car keys on the table, put the junk mail in the recycling box under the table, and notice that the recycling box is full. So, I decide to put the bills back on the table and take out the recycling first.
But then I think, since I'm going to be near the postbox when I take out the recycling paper anyway, I may as well pay the bills first.
I take my cheque book off the table, and notice that there is only one cheque left. My extra cheques are in my desk in the study, so I go inside the house to my desk where I find the cup of coffee I'd been drinking.
I'm going to look for my cheques, but first I need to push the coffee aside so that I don't accidentally knock it over. The coffee is getting cold, and I decide to make another cup.
As I head toward the kitchen with the cold coffee, a vase of flowers on the work top catches my eye - the flowers need water.
I put the coffee on the work top and discover my reading glasses that I've been searching for all morning.
I decide I better put them back on my desk, but first I'm going to water the flowers.
I put the glasses back down on the work top, fill a container with water and suddenly spot the TV remote control. Someone left it on the kitchen table.
I realize that tonight when we go to watch TV, I'll be looking for the remote, but I won't remember that it's on the kitchen table, so I decide to put it back where it belongs, but first I'll water the flowers.
I pour some water in the flowers, but quite a bit of it spills on the floor. So, I put the remote back on the table, get some towels and wipe up the spill.
Then, I head down the hall trying to remember what I was planning to do.
At the end of the day:
The car isn't washed.
The bills aren't paid.
There is a cold cup of coffee sitting on the counter.
The flowers don't have enough water.
There is still only 1 cheque in my cheque book.
I can't find the remote.
I can't find my glasses.
And I don't remember what I did with the car keys.
Then, when I try to figure out why nothing got done today, I'm really baffled because I know I was damned busy all day, and I'm really tired.
I realize this is a serious problem, and I'll try to get some help for it, but first I'll check my e-mail.
Thursday, August 12, 2010
What have I been doing hmmm~
Sunday, August 8, 2010
MUAHAHHA found them found them AT LAST
Saturday, July 24, 2010
Friday, July 9, 2010
yo,
Wednesday, July 7, 2010
Yo,
DID I NOT SAY SPAIN WOULD WIN!!
HAHAHAH told you guys to believe in the octopus=.=" geesh
Well, we went to Harbour Town yesterday... wooo Midyear sales... How romantic
It was crap... stuff on big sales are like those that are either BROKEN or they are just real fugly... so didnt buy much... Spent most of my money yesterday on food... lol
baby spent 80 bucks on shoes at Timberland... i swear they look like golf shoes but yeh it is pretty nice~ they were like 200 ++ before sales... pretty good ey...
80% of the people there are Arabs i swear... RICH people ... you see them with like big bags from shops like POLO, OROTON,TOMMY etc... like seriously... BIG BIG bags ~ no jokes yo~
Anyways...
I woke up at 11 today... I had to wake up cause of my dad... if it wasn't for my dad, I could lay there till 5.00p.m. when my mummy comes home... cause like... waking up = start of the day = alot of things to do (like facebook/check mails etc... very tiring) lol... I'd rather lay there and sleep and sleep and sleep... Good method for dieting too!
What's new... nothing much... photoshoot next thursday 10a.m. yo~
Till then lovers~
Monday, July 5, 2010
SPAIN~ Plastic Surgery?
Yesterday our beloved octopus, PAUL predicted that SPAIN will KNOCKOUT GERMANY~~~~ yoyoyoyoyo~ SO i guess Spain is the winner then... HAHAHAHA! I am going to win this bet again yo~ I hope Paul the octopus is right....Well, what's new.... erm beside from the octopus prediction.... I am going to IKEA in in in 3 hours time... how exciting...! Meatballs... yummy~Oh and i came across this Korean girl's surgery thing...here...Tah dah~~~ Before and After.... look at her chin man~ so cool~~ So cool~
Now look at this...SO SO SO SO SO different!!! so much prettier~ like seriously her face is like i swear 5 times longer and skinnier man...
Now now now, look at this:
OMG~ so cool, look at her tummy! her legs! her bum!! her arms! WOW...I WANT.. ! i wish i am brave enough to do that but seriously, after looking at these pictures of her surgery procedure... erm i think... nah i am happy with my face-.-The journey begins~~~~ tahdah~~I can tell she is really brave, like HOW CAN YOU DO A PEACE SIGN WHEN YOU ARE IN SO MUCH PAIN... omg=.= OUCH... ouch
This is the special liquid thing they use after the surgery for her to gurgle her mouth with for 4 days... to prevent infection... sigh and and and she can't eat for 14 days.... =.="
I guess that's the price you have to pay =.= Oh and it cost her around 12K in total only for her facial part surgery which consists of erm... Lower face lift, middle face lift, brow lift, Nose job, Lips augmentation etc. However, it is so much cheaper compares to the ones here... so babies, if you ever want to do something like that.... go KOREA yo~ Much better technology i reckon, i mean look at the scary Hollywood stars with their wonky faces after surgery... yeh ~
All I can say is, the world is now full of pretty girls, which means, girls nowadays want to be prettier than pretty. It is kinda a role now, to be beautiful. DAMN, why is life so hardcore nowadays...
but I am fine... as long as i have my chips and ice cream, i am happy... FOR NOW...
Till then~
@jasoncwd i know right? Where is the logic in that? If God is no more real than santa clause or the tooth fairy then why spend so much time and energy talking and thinking about something that dos not exist? Why spend hours of study to disprove God if he is just as fictional as superman? Why are they always so angry and bitter at God who they supposedly do not believe in. How can you be angry and bitter at nothing? Their actions indicate that God is very much real to them.